“Everything I Judge as Good” (A–Z)
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9.2 Worksheet #2
“Everything I Judge as Bad” (A–Z) | |
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A | B |
C | D |
E | F |
G | H |
I | J |
K | L |
M | N |
O | P |
Q | R |
S | T |
U | V |
W | X |
Y | Z |
9.3 Worksheet #3
Which five events have been the best ones in your life so far? |
Which five events have been the worst ones in your life so far? |
9.4 Worksheet #4
Write down at least three things that should change soon. |
Write down at least three things that shouldn’t change at all. |
Write down at least three things that should change soon but that take time to change. |
9.5 Worksheet #5
“Wanted” Poster |
Name: |
Age: |
Hobbies: |
What I would like to learn: |
What I can dispense with without difficulty: |
What I wish for during my time on the ward: |
Something weird I would like to do: |
9.6 Worksheet #6
Name: | Test supervisor: | Date: |
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Please complete the following sentences: | ||
Going to school is… | ||
When I am grown up, I’d like to… | ||
My father is… | ||
The best I know… | ||
I often dream about… | ||
Having brothers and/or sisters… | ||
The person making decisions within our family… | ||
It is awful if… | ||
The only thing I really fear… | ||
I enjoy… | ||
My mother is… | ||
I’d like my father to… | ||
In my opinion, my teacher… | ||
My classmates… | ||
The person preferred in our family… | ||
My father is probably thinking that I… | ||
I think my pain… | ||
If I don’t obey… | ||
If I could make decisions at home… | ||
My mother is probably thinking that I… | ||
What I don’t like at all… | ||
It is disgusting when… | ||
What I like doing most is… | ||
I get sad if… | ||
The other boys/girls probably think I… | ||
The worst thing I know… | ||
I wish my mother… | ||
If I could change myself… | ||
If I had 100 euros then… |
If three of my wishes came true: |
1st wish: |
2nd wish: |
3rd wish: |
Which animal would you like to be? |
Why? |
Which animal would you not like to be? |
Why? |
What would you like to do by profession? |
Why? |
9.7 Worksheet #7
“Distraction ABC”
The distraction ABC is one of the most effective distraction techniques available for children with pain. It may be adapted to the abilities and preferences of every child and combined with nearly every other pain reduction technique. With increasing expertise, older children develop unique variants of this technique tailored to their specific skills and habits of distraction. Hence, teaching this method is complex and requires a very creative therapist. He/she should not focus too much on a fixed plan but should rather explore the individual abilities, resources, and spontaneous suggestions of the patient. The exploration of failures will offer valuable hints for the development of more individual and effective variants. As a rule of thumb, a distraction score of 7 and up (scale 0–10 (0, no distraction at all; 10, totally absorbed by the exercise, I don’t take notice of my environment at all)) indicates that the exercise is perceived as helpful. A distraction score of 5–6 refers to a pain reduction of about 1 score (NRS, 0–10); a distraction score of 7–8 refers to a pain reduction of about 2 scores (NRS, 0–10); a distraction score of 9–10 refers to a pain reduction of about 3 scores (NRS, 0–10). By no means should one query the effect on pain directly, because this bears the risk of classical conditioning.
After the technique has been presented by the therapist, the child and therapist develop suitable variants. These are tested together once. The homework then is to perform and document the distraction ABC at least four times. For documentation, a sheet of paper with the columns (1) time, (2) type of ABC, and (3) distraction score (0–10) is used. If the exercise is complex enough, the technique may be suitable for controlling flashbacks, stopping thoughts, and reducing fear in children with high fear sensitivity.
Step 1
In the first and simplest step, the child is instructed to find any item matching a chosen topic for each letter of the alphabet from A to Z.
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Topics may be specific such as animals, horse breeds, foods, things we like/dislike, swear words, or “things one is noticing or hearing.”
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The “Chaos ABC” is well suited to children in need of a fast distraction. For this exercise, the first association matching the respective letter is taken. In our experience, it is advisable to exclude the topic “animals,” since the task is too easy otherwise. In a variant of the exercise, using an item more than once is not allowed, making the course of the exercise more demanding. Some children feel more distracted if the “Chaos ABC” is carried out repeatedly or with time pressure.
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Performing the “Chaos ABC” in various languages (i.e., English, Spanish, French…) is another variant of the game.
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Children like the variant in which each sentence or poem starts with the respective letter (variant: The sentences are not logically connected; the poem has/doesn’t have meter).
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The math whiz may like the variant looking for numbers in a logical sequence (e.g., 1,000 − 11, −22, −33, and − 44 up to say −1,000, then in reverse up to +1,000).
Step 2
In the second step, a sensory channel (visual, auditory, haptic, olfactory, gustatory) is added to verbalization. This will result in a higher degree of distraction in most children. This can only be done successfully if the child is able to sufficiently imagine that channel. A child with difficulties in figurative imagination should, for example, avoid the visual channel.
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If the first exercises from step 1 fail to reach sufficient distraction (distraction score of 7 and up out of 10), the additional visualization (or imagination of animal noises) will increase the degree of distraction.
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For step 2, some children like to “google in their head.” This means to freely associate words and images to a given item starting with the respective letter (A–Z), similar to a search engine’s list of hits. For example, given letter: D; associated word: dog. The child can now search for hits, verbal and figurative images (e.g., dog tag, dog breed; puppy; hot dog).
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Another popular variant is the “jukebox.” The child has to find a music title, artist, or album matching the given letter (A–Z). Then he/she has to play a 10-, 20-, or 30-s clip of the title song, another song of the artist, or of the album in his/her head.
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Another task is to find sequences of a movie instead of music (“brain TV”). Younger children may alternatively watch the animals from animal ABC in their “brain TV” (freeze image or movie).
Step 3
In the third step, two or more sensory channels (visual, auditory, haptic, olfactory, gustatory) are added to verbalization. Techniques of step 3 are rarely applied right away. Usually they emerge while doing exercises from the previous steps, for instance if the degree of distraction is too low or if the children unleash their creativity.
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The “jukebox” might be upgraded by superimposing the lyrics.
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A bit more complex is the “music clip.” In this exercise, the “jukebox” is combined with “brain TV” (such as Viva or MTV).
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Two fun but very complex variants are “X-ray” and “camera.” In “X-ray,” the child watches a memory, a movie, a performance, or a current visual stimulus through an X-ray device (this can also be watched on mobile phones or smart phone). In “camera,” everything that is happening (including the child performing the exercise) is seen through a camera’s perspective. The resulting alienation or distancing can also be used to emotionally stabilize a traumatized child.
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Although much less technical, the variant involving animals (visual imagination of the animal, hearing its sounds, stroking the animal, huddle against the animal) is very popular. This variant can only be practiced if the child has a good enough kinesthetic imagination.
Step 4
In step 4, the techniques proven helpful during steps 1–3 are combined with another technique (e.g., the Safe Place). That step is especially helpful for children with a comorbid trauma disorder who need both a higher degree of distraction and emotional stabilization and who have an excellent figurative imagination. The techniques of step 4 are very complex and require a lot of creativity and figurative imagination. The exercises need to be presented very clearly. The best way is to describe the examples from below as one possible way to perform this exercise. Most children will react spontaneously and unambiguously (“That sounds tiring,” or “Great, I’ve already got an idea”). Different examples for this step are listed below.
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Notice things you see, hear, or feel in your Safe Place (Sect. 6.4.2) starting with a given letter (A–Z).